Episode 148

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18th Jul 2023

Own Your Battle

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In This Episode, Mark and Joey discuss the importance of choosing complete healing over short-term quick fixes, taking ownership of one's life, shifting from victimhood to empowerment, and the significance of surrounding yourself with an environment that supports growth and transformation.

Episode Summary:

  • Intro to the episode. 0:03
  • Welcome to the next level of Empowered AF 2.0.
  • Shame says I am a bad man. 2:13
  • The difference between guilt and shame.
  • Why most men fail to take responsibility for their transformation.
  • Blaming everyone else and blaming the circumstances.
  • The importance of not looking past the question.
  • How did I contribute to the failure of the marriage? 5:24
  • Narcissistic ways and beliefs.
  • How did he contribute to the failure of the marriage.
  • You are not a victim if you choose to be. 7:13
  • You are not a victim right now.
  • Taking ownership of your own life.
  • The truth shall set you free by taking responsibility. 9:43
  • Being a free man vs being enslaved.
  • How to own your shit.
  • Owning the shit is an identity shift.
  • The power of environment and accountability. 14:56
  • Leveraging the power of the environment.
  • The power of accountability.
  • Show me your friends and I will show you your future. 17:07
  • Our lower aspirins around us judge us.
  • Your friends will get you where they are.
  • How can I choose complete healing over short term quick fixes? 18:33
  • How to choose complete healing over short-term quick fix.
  • Pressure relief valves.
  • How to feel empowered. 20:17
  • Venting will make you feel good for a second, but it doesn't heal anything.
  • Tom Brady's coach.
  • How to get clear on your goals. 22:12
  • Clarity one-on-one call with mark.
  • The growth of the empowered man group.
  • The first 50 episodes in the podcast.

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About the Podcast

Empowered AF
An Empowered man is one who communicates like a leader, sets boundaries that gets respect, knows who he is and what he wants...and owns his own sh*t. The Empowered AF podcast is designed to help men do just that in their marriage and life. Join...
An Empowered man is one who communicates like a leader, sets boundaries that gets respect, knows who he is and what he wants...and owns his own sh*t.

The Empowered AF podcast is designed to help men do just that in their marriage and life. Join entrepreneur, coach, and father Mark Santiago every week as he shares the secrets to stepping into your own empowerment as a man.

Each week you’ll hear about taboo issues that hold back the modern-day man from knowing who he is, what he wants, and how to become the man he wants to be as a father, husband, and leader.

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