How To Diffuse Toxicity, Part 2
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In This Episode, Mark and Joey continue the discussion on how to defuse toxicity in relationships and the importance of taking ownership and responsibility in relationships. They share a story of a man who initially wanted to file for divorce but decided to work on himself instead. They emphasize the need to create a safe space for oneself and the significance of self-improvement. They also address the challenges of co-parenting and offer advice on handling pushback in a productive manner.
Episode Summary:
- Intro to the episode. 0:03
- Welcome to the next level of Empowered Man 2.0.
- Creating a new marriage.
- It always comes back to us. 1:55
- It comes back to the man in the mirror.
- Take ownership. Step one, take ownership.
- Why men don’t show up for themselves 3:24
- Men don't know how to show up for themselves.
- 95% of what men say is bullshit.
- It's all her telling me how to fix it. 5:03
- Taking responsibility instead of trying to fix it.
- The man he wants to be.
- Understanding that just because your marriage is over doesn’t mean your life is over. 6:33
- Marriage is dead for 98% of you.
- How to get empowered to move forward.
- Santiago family 2.0 vs Santiago family 1.0.
- Kids are more resilient than you realize.
- Understanding your values and willingness to compromise. 11:06
- Being a shell of the man he used to be.
- How to handle push back.
- Things that aren’t worth the battle. 13:16
- No fighting over petty things with your ex-wife.
- Recognize when kids are with you and when not.
- How do you detach from the outcome? 15:13
- Summer camp for five-year-old daughter.
- How to deal with summer camp conflict.
- What are indicators that a spouse is ready to return to the marriage? 17:31
- Three indicators that a spouse is ready to return to the marriage.
- How to protect yourself from manipulation. 19:23
- Protecting against manipulation in a divorce.
- How many guys have a plan.
- Mark's mission is to eradicate loneliness and help men become better men.
- Empowered man group.
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