Episode 142

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6th Jun 2023

From Pain To Power

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In This Episode, Mark and Joey discuss the topic of pain and how it can be turned into power. They emphasize the importance of taking ownership of one's pain and changing the environment to foster growth. They also highlight the need for a clear vision and determination to overcome challenges. Join them as they provide insights and answer questions from listeners.

Episode Summary:

  • How to turn your pain into power? 1:36
  • Training on how to turn pain into power.
  • Pain is not the only one.
  • Getting used to navigating through the pain.
  • Step one, inventory pain and take ownership of pain.
  • Taking a stance of ownership. 6:25
  • Take a stance of ownership.
  • Elevate your community and environment.
  • The difference between impacted and distracted. 9:24
  • Most men never heal from this stuff.
  • The difference between a disempowered and impacted man.
  • You can't get masculinity from your female therapist.
  • Be determined and have a plan.
  • Saving your marriage is not a goal at all. 14:24
  • Open up for questions.
  • Robert has a question about accountability and accountability.
  • Your wife holds your balls in her hand.
  • Saving a marriage is a state.
  • Respect is earned. 17:20
  • Men are sick of men being manipulated by their own penises.
  • Respect is earned, not automatic.
  • Men don't have any value for what they bring to the table.
  • If she doesn't trust you.
  • Why you shouldn’t be happy with who you are now. 22:35
  • Respect goals and not content with who they are.
  • 100% ownership equals 100% freedom.
  • Lying to yourself about your identity. 24:47
  • Hunger is the thing that drives and pushes you forward.
  • Lying to yourself constantly.
  • New layers of love and trust.
  • Isolation is the problem 99% of the time.
  • Ending the cycle of loneliness in men. 29:09
  • Empowered men end the cycle of loneliness.
  • Empowering men to come fully alive.
  • The importance of having a goal. 31:13
  • Sign up for a 30 minute call with Joey.
  • Have a goal.
  • Mark has a few spots opened up for the next episode.
  • Last thoughts from Joey.

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Empowered AF
An Empowered man is one who communicates like a leader, sets boundaries that gets respect, knows who he is and what he wants...and owns his own sh*t. The Empowered AF podcast is designed to help men do just that in their marriage and life. Join...
An Empowered man is one who communicates like a leader, sets boundaries that gets respect, knows who he is and what he wants...and owns his own sh*t.

The Empowered AF podcast is designed to help men do just that in their marriage and life. Join entrepreneur, coach, and father Mark Santiago every week as he shares the secrets to stepping into your own empowerment as a man.

Each week you’ll hear about taboo issues that hold back the modern-day man from knowing who he is, what he wants, and how to become the man he wants to be as a father, husband, and leader.

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